
When spring begins to sprout, the obvious signs are longer days, warmer weather, allergies and blooming trees and flowers. There are some intuitive signs that begin to show up, also. Intuitive signs, by my definition, are symptoms of the body sensing and experiencing cues from nature. We begin to crave different foods, our energy levels shift, we want to get moving more and cleanse. Something about spring overall has a feeling of opening up, rebirth and renewal.
Another intuitive sign that I experience personally is a feeling of “out with the old and in with the new.” The other day I went into my bedroom and stared for a solid 30 minutes at my drawers. I began to feel overwhelmed by all the clothes, jewelry, socks, undergarments and accessories that were stuffed, crammed and rolled into every nook and cranny of each drawer. Now, mind you, these drawers have been like this all winter and all of a sudden I had an urge to stare at them. If that is not nature telling me something, I don’t know what is because I defiantly avoid those drawers at all cost.
So, when you experience these feelings, what‘s the best way to declutter?
Start Slow. The first step towards decluttering is pacing yourself. You don’t have to conquer the home in one day. Start with one thing like the closet, bookcase or several drawers. The test is if you feel overwhelmed then you need to go smaller. Feeling overwhelmed will just keep you stuck and will prevent you from doing anything. So, go as small as needed for you to take action—even if it means starting with one drawer.
Throw It All Away. The second step is learning to part with possessions that don’t serve you anymore. I took a couple of deep breaths, and told myself it’s now or never. I pulled out three large trash bags and began to sift through everything. Into the bags went shirts with stains. You know the kind—stains you thought you’d remove with bleach one day but never did or never could. Toss out those socks with holes, socks with no mates, belts that no longer fit and tops that only your 16-year-old niece would wear. Once you have filled several bags, take them to a local clothing donation box or a non-profit organization like Goodwill, the Salvation Army, or Dress for Success. If you have high-quality clothes to declutter, you could try selling them to a local thrift store or consignment shop. Items like old makeup, costume earrings missing a match or old sunglasses, should also be looked at—either donate, recycle or trash them.
Be Generous. We all have items in our drawers and closets that we won’t wear again but are reluctant to part with. When I was cleaning, I came to the more emotional drawer, the one that held the skinny jeans that I was holding onto as a constant reminder of what I should look like. If you don’t know if an item should be kept or thrown use this rule of thumb: if you haven’t used it in the last year or if it makes you feel bad because it doesn’t fit, away it goes.
Let Yourself Go. Once I overcame some of my initial hesitation over decluttering, I let the process take over—it become addicting. I filled up bag after bag of donation-worthy stuff and other bags of items destined for the dumpster. As you declutter, you might start feeling as I began to feel: less stagnant and more free. When I slam dunked those skinny jeans into the trash bag, I immediately felt lighter and more flexible. It was like shedding weight. We, unknowingly, carry the weight of the clutter around mentally and rarely break away from it, but you can gain an increase in clarity through this process.
Imagine the Space to Create. A new thought emerged, as I looked at the emptier drawers and the filled up trash bags when I finished decluttering. I realized that I physically had space in the drawer but I also had space to create something new. One thought was, “What new items can I shop for, to fill the space?” I won’t lie—this sparked some excitement. Then, I realized it just feels good to have less. I had expended years of energy keeping and saving items of the past. I now had space to visualize and create something new.
Take a look at your home and consider performing your own decluttering ritual. It may or may not lead to some heavy realizations, but at the very least, you will have a cleaner home, donations to make for people in need and maybe a little more peace of mind.
Written for ABCDLady http://abcdlady.com/2010-05/art5.php
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